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Wilderness Living

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DeAnna and Judy would dig tunnels through the snow it was so deep and firm. They'd have them going all over the back yard. But they'd wake up the next morning all excited to go out and crawl through them again only to find that they caved in.
One day DeAnna got this bright idea to build the BIGGEST snowman all the kids could build together. They got the bottom snowball so big it took all of them together to push it. Then what was so funny after they couldn't push it anymore they all look up at it. And the thought hit them how were they gonna get the top ball on it? The bottom was taller than all them. So they decided to dig a hole into it and use it as a igglo. They got a throw rug to cover the doorway to keep the cold air from blowing in. And they'd bring a lantern in with them for light and heat. And sit and play cards all day.
DeAnna and Judy would bundle up on the weekends and walk down the road past the side clearing. They'd sing California Dreaming because it was so cold they'd be dreaming of warm weather. At the end of the property there were some small hills. They take cardboard and slide down the little hills. They also built a pretend house in the pines there. Just marking the walls and doorways with sticks laying on the ground. They'd spend all day out there playing.
One time DeAnna had to take a pee. She walked a way from the pines and had a snowmobile suit on. She unzipped it and squat down to tinkle. As she got back up, she fell back. She had her gloves off and she used both her hands to keep her from falling all the way down. The snow was so cold on her hands. She managed to zip her suit back up and put her gloves on. They walked back up to the house. DeAnna's hands were so cold they were numb. She felt like crying and kept rubbing them together. It wasn't that far back to the house but in 32 below weather it seemed like it was forever. She felt like her hands were gonna fall off. She knew you could get frost bite and lose her hands. They finally made it back and she headed straight to to wood stove. God, she was glad she made it back.
Some weekends she would go with the boys to Big Manistique Lake to go ice fishing. It was a ice shanny not much bigger than an the outhouse. They had a barrel they used to burn wood for heat while they were in there with a small vent going out the roof. You'd have to spike a whole in the lake. And put your fishing line in and wait. You could see the fish swimming by. It was cool! DeAnna loved it! Sometimes they would spear for Northern Pike. You'd just stand there with a spear in your hand and wait for the Pike to swim by. Then throw the spear at it. They'd often bring a lot of fish home to eat. She didn't like summer fishing but she loved ice fishing.
So nights the boys would go out shinning for deer. Sometimes they'd bring one home and they'd have food for a few weeks.

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That summer DeAnna was in the eight grade. They had spent the year holding cake walks, yard sales or sale homemade cookies etc. For them to get up the money to go on a class trip. They'd did the whole graduation. DeAnna's mom fixed up her hair and bought her a new dress to wear. She was so happy. It was a real treat getting a new dress. They went to Milwaukee to watch the baseball game there. She really enjoyed it.

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DeAnna's mom was working in Newberry as a bartender still. Which was now 60 miles away. She'd leave at 3pm to be there at 4pm. DeAnna would often talk with Big Tony about things in life. He seemed to know so much. If something went wrong he'd say things like 'Nothing in life is perfect. That's why God invented the eraser.' She really looked up to him as a dad. Her dad had gotten very cold to her since she chose to live with her mom.
One day when her mom was gone to work no one else was around. DeAnna was watching tv in the front room. Big Tony told her to come with her. DeAnna got up to follow him. He walked into his bedroom. DeAnna stood outside the door. No one else ever went into their room.
"Come in and close the door." Big Tony said.
DeAnna stepped in but was getting rather nervous. She wasn't sure why he would want her to come into his bedroom.
"Shut the door." He said again.
DeAnna reluctantly shut the door. Getting even more nervous.
"Take off your clothes and lay down on the bed."
What on earth? She thought to herself. She was only 11 years old. What on earth was he up to? She just stood there scared.
"Come on now. Take off your clothes and lay down!" He said rather angry sounding.
DeAnna was really getting so scared she could hardly move. She knew everyone else was gone and they were the only ones in the house. He kept looking at her and was giving her a rather angry look. So she ever so slowly took off her clothes.
"Lay down on the bed!"
She slowly walked over to the bed and laid down. He had took off his clothes and laid on top of her. DeAnna closed her eyes and just started to cry. Oh my God! Why is he doing this to me? She thought to herself. Time seemed to drag by. It seemed like forever before he was done. How could he do this to me? DeAnna thought as she cried praying he would stop. Finally he got off her and told her to get dressed. DeAnna quickly put on her clothes. She ran out of the house into the woods. She ran to the pines to hide. She just laid there crying. It was getting dark. But she didn't care. She'd rather stay there alone in the dark. He was like a father to her. HOW COULD HE DO THIS? She hated him. She felt so terrible.
"DeAnna!" She could hear Judy calling for her. DeAnna didn't care she just laid there crying.
"DeAnna! What's the matter?" Judy asked as she came up to her laying on the ground in the pines. "Are you alright?"
"NNNOOOO!" Was all she could say. Judy walked over to her.
"Are you hurt? Did you fall?" Judy asked her.
DeAnna managed to tell Judy what happened.
"No way!" Judy exclaimed.
DeAnna just shook her head still crying.
"Come on. Let's go back to the house and get you cleaned up!" Judy said as she helped her up off the ground brushing the leaves off her. They walked slowly back to the house. DeAnna didn't want to go in there. But Judy got her to go inside to bed. She went and brought her a wet rage to wipe herself off with. DeAnna felt so dirty and violated. Nothing could ever clean her.
From then on when her mom went to work her and Judy would take off somewhere together. She wanted to make sure he never did that to her again. Sometimes they walk into town and sometimes they'd just hide out in the woods until evening when the other kids were all home. They all heard about what happened. They were upset but what could they do. No one dared say a word to him about it.
One time when Judy and DeAnna were up in a tree near the cow pasture on the side of the house Big Tony came walking down the trail. They were real still hoping he wouldn't notice them. They were up so high, near the top. He walked under the tree they were in and looked up. It was a tree he knew the two of them would stand on the branches near the bottom and bounce on them to get the cows to come over and eat the maple leaves.
"What are you guys doing?" Big Tony said looking up at them. "DeAnna get down here right now!"
DeAnna looked at Judy. Judy looked just as scared. Their dad had whipped their butts many a time.
"Get down here now!" He said again even firmer.
DeAnna slowly climbed down. She didn't know what else to do. And he took her into his room again.
DeAnna couldn't believe it. He was a dad to her. How could he do this? She hated it and hated him. That night she just cried herself to sleep. The next day before her mom left for work she told her mom what was happening.
"No! He wouldn't do that!" Her mom said as she got into her car to leave for work. "Just stay with Debbie and Judy. We'll talk about this later."
That night Debbie and Judy stayed with her in their room all afternoon. The next day after her mom went to work. Big Tony called all the girls out of their room.
"You had to tell your mom what happened?" He was yelling at DeAnna. "Ok! I tell you what! For now on your horse no longer belongs to you. Lightin' belongs to Judy now. I better not ever see you riding him again. Do you hear me?"
DeAnna was crying and shook her head yes. He couldn't be doing this to her. She loved Lightin' She hated him so much. This isn't right she thought to herself.
The next day when her mom was getting ready to leave for work. DeAnna told her mom she didn't want to live there anymore. She wanted to go live with her dad in Georgia. Her mom said alright. So DeAnna packed up her things that night. Her mom talked with Bobby. He said he wanted to go too. So they both moved to Georgia to live with their dad.

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